Self-acceptance will get beneficial continuously, however are we actually supposed to simply accept the elements of ourselves we don’t like? Received’t that cease us from altering? Right this moment on the Being Effectively Podcast, Dr. Rick and Forrest focus on what self-acceptance is, what it isn’t, and why it’s the start line for actual change. They share the 4 phases of competence (and why acutely aware incompetence is the place studying stalls), the 2 escape hatches individuals take from it, why harsh self-criticism is a type of avoidance, and Rick’s three circles mannequin of the act, the scared self, and the being.
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Key Matters
- 0:00: Intro
- 3:04: What self-acceptance is (and isn’t)
- 6:43: The 4 phases of competence
- 10:59: Two unhealthy exits: “fool” self-acceptance and extreme self-criticism
- 13:24: Crucial self-acceptance: choose the conduct, not the self
- 22:13: The three circles: the act, the scared self, and the ‘being’
- 26:44: The 2 issues individuals battle to simply accept
- 32:27: Do you have to settle for the act?
- 43:20: Being with, working with, and the 2 ranges of acceptance
- 51:35: Recap
