I used to be using a stuffy, creaking, inexperienced VW bus from the middle of Kathmandu to Dhamma Shringa when it started to hail.
Having arrived in Nepal three days earlier, I used to be getting aware of monsoon season’s climate sample: every oppressively humid day gave technique to a fleeting however intense afternoon bathe, so timing-wise, this storm was typical.
The frozen pellets pounding down from the sky, nonetheless, weren’t.
I used to be on the final bus to Dhamma Shringa, a Vipassana Meditation Middle on the northern fringe of the Kathmandu Valley, the place I’d quickly be collaborating in a silent, ten-day meditation course. In good climate, the campus is a couple of half an hour journey from the Metropolis Workplaces, the place I’d arrived that morning for course registration, however as hail clattered the bus and remodeled right into a whipping rain, the hillside paths turned to mud, and our bus started to sluggish.
Then it stalled.
Then it stopped.
Nobody I knew meditated, I didn’t develop up round yogis, and if my grandfather was conscious of the period of time I’ve spent barefoot in public, he’d most likely need to die once more.
Phrase got here down from these forward that the roads have been too muddy and harmful to drive, so a couple of miles downhill, we have been instructed to collect our baggage and hike the remainder of the way in which.
Somebody smarter than me may need taken this as an indication.
I stored trudging onwards.
Newbie’s Thoughts
Trying again, I’m nonetheless unsure the place the concept to meditate got here from.
I’m descended from a protracted line of repressed Irish-Catholics from Springfield, Massachusetts. Rising up, I by no means noticed my grandfather in a pair of shorts: he completely wore sweaters, button-ups, and pressed slacks, solely ever compromising with a golf shirt at my sister’s August birthday events.
To this present day, there isn’t any proof that he really had knees.
Nobody I knew meditated, I didn’t develop up round yogis, and if my grandfather was conscious of the period of time I’ve spent barefoot in public, he’d most likely need to die once more.
In my mid-20’s, nonetheless, I started dealing with bouts of anxiousness and despair that had beforehand been unfamiliar to me. Till that time, I’d by no means had any problem being glad, however as these emotions grew to become extra elusive, I knew I wanted to do one thing totally different.
For some cause that also eludes me, I assumed meditation may assist, and one afternoon, I downloaded Headspace and commenced working towards for ten minutes earlier than work every morning.
And despite the fact that I might inform early on within the course of that meditation was working, I nonetheless didn’t plan on telling anybody I meditated.
I additionally didn’t plan on instructing meditation, or instructing lecturers to show meditation—however in hindsight, the trail appears to take you the place it takes you.
Three or 4 days into this new morning routine, I used to be on the cellphone with my dad and instructed him, “I’m going to do that meditation factor, however I don’t need it to alter who I’m.”
Two years later, he was driving me to JFK for a flight to Nepal, so I might participate in a silent meditation retreat.
I considered that dialog, and from deep inside, I smiled.
Going Public
After graduating school in 2010, I used to be employed as a boarding college member at Wilbraham & Monson Academy, the place I taught English for fourteen years.
In 2018, two of the varsity’s younger alumni died by suicide, certainly one of whom had beforehand been my advisee.
Shortly thereafter, a pupil named Evan misplaced a buddy from his hometown, additionally to suicide, and within the wake of this, determined to discuss psychological well being on the subsequent All-Faculty Assembly.
I used to be a couple of 12 months into my apply on the time and had no plans of popping out as a meditator.
I used to be a couple of 12 months into my apply on the time and had no plans of popping out as a meditator. Evan, nonetheless, was not a lot of a public speaker, so I supplied to talk alongside him: he would supply assets for anybody battling psychological well being, and I’d current Headspace as a device for managing stress and anxiousness.
After Evan’s jiffy on stage that afternoon, I walked to the rostrum, cycled by way of a couple of slides, and performed a video of Andy Puddicombe main a two-minute meditation on The Tonight Present with Jimmy Fallon, which all appeared warmly obtained inside the auditorium.
After I walked exterior, nonetheless, the Head of Faculty—Brian Easler, a former Military Ranger that also has an air of Particular Forces about him—was ready for me.
I assumed certainly one of my clumsy makes an attempt at humor had gone sideways, my nerves main me to say one thing I most likely shouldn’t have.
Fortunately, although, the dialog went one thing like this:
BRIAN: “We have to deliver meditation to campus.”
BILLY: “I couldn’t agree extra.”
BRIAN: “Yeah, we might actually use somebody to show meditation on campus.”
BILLY: “Yeah, we should always discover somebody to show meditation on campus.”
BRIAN (exasperated): “…I would like it to be you, dummy.”
Or no less than that’s my reminiscence of it.
The Boston Buddha
Brian instructed me to discover a meditation instructor coaching. The college would pay for it, and when completed, I’d, in reality, be the one to deliver meditation to campus.
I returned with the Boston Buddha.
“I began meditating to go to sleep,” Andy Kelley typically says. “Now, I meditate to fall awake.”
Extra familiarly, the Boston Buddha is Andy Kelley, a fellow working-class, Irish-Catholic, who arrived to meditation to handle stress and assist with sleep, by no means anticipating that he’d sometime go away his profession as a TV information producer to show meditation.
“I began meditating to go to sleep,” he typically says. “Now, I meditate to fall awake.”
I first met Andy at Stil Studio in Dedham, Massachusetts on a Friday in November: it was the opening night time of his 100-Hour “Meditation for Everybody” Trainer Coaching, and given the truth that I’d by no means really meditated with one other individual earlier than, I arrived with no small quantity of apprehension.
No matter anxiousness I felt, nonetheless, was instantly assuaged by how common Andy was. Most weekends, he sat within the entrance of the room in a Celtics zip-up and a navy baseball hat, and as soon as throughout a Patriots playoff sport, he draped himself in a team-branded snuggie for good luck, which I discovered unusually comforting.
He was additionally humorous—not simply instructor humorous, extra “your-buddy-at-the-end-of-the-bar” sort of humorous—and of all of his traces, the one which’s been most useful is, “Go into each room assuming half the persons are going to like you and half the persons are going to suppose you’re filled with shit.”
Andy was proof that character doesn’t must be washed away by apply. You really get to maintain it, you simply maintain it extra calmly.
I graduated from this system within the spring of 2019, however had by no means led a “actual” meditation exterior of Andy’s program. A way of Imposter Syndrome was starting to simmer.
In a couple of months, I’d be the individual on the entrance of the room anticipated to have the solutions, and l nonetheless felt like I didn’t know sufficient, hadn’t practiced sufficient, wasn’t ready sufficient to tackle that position.
I used to be simply sitting on the ground, respiratory, attempting to be a greater individual.
No matter cool shit is meant to occur earlier than you change into a actual meditation instructor hadn’t occurred to me.
I used to be simply sitting on the ground, respiratory, attempting to be a greater individual.
I made a decision to go to Nepal.
Vipassana
On the arrival gate of Tribhuvan Worldwide Airport, a Customs Officer requested me the aim of my go to to Nepal. I instructed him I used to be there for a Vipassana Course at Dhamma Shringa Meditation Middle.
He laughed.
“Vipassana may be very harsh. I attempted it as soon as and solely made it seven days,” he stated. “All of your sins will likely be revealed.”
It was Might twenty ninth—two days earlier than my thirty first birthday—and by that time, I had been touring for nicely over twenty-four hours. Reality be instructed, I hoped for a hotter welcome than “all of your sins will likely be revealed,” however as my mother at all times instructed us, “You get what you get and also you don’t get upset.”
On the morning of June 1st, I registered for the course on the Metropolis Workplaces, grabbed a seat on the final accessible bus for the journey to the campus, and inside the hour, was mountaineering in opposition to the violent afternoon rain, traversing the loosening earth of the Himalayan foothills, which felt a bit like attempting to go up the down escalator.
The proof that I’d made a mistake was mounting.
Fortunately, I discovered myself subsequent to a New Zealander named Ryan, one of many few different Westerners within the course, and as we walked in opposition to the spitting rain, he joked that this was “our initiation into a extremely pleasant cult.”
Ryan appeared well-equipped to deal with the following ten days: he had a surfer’s vibe, wore a shock of blonde hair and Rainbow sandals, and was studying Thich Nhat Hanh once I met him at registration.
On the afternoon of Day 5, nonetheless, his meditation cushion—three again to the left of my very own—was eliminated by the volunteers and positioned again in storage.
Over the following 5 days, extra cushions have been eliminated, and I’d typically arrive to meditation with somebody I’d by no means seen prior to now sitting on my left or proper.
I can’t fault Ryan or anybody else for not making it, although.
Vipassana is tough.
Actually onerous.
Unquestionably, the toughest factor I’ve ever achieved…and I nonetheless didn’t get to see the colours.
However I used to be beginning to study that possibly that wasn’t the purpose.
Instructing the Apply
On the primary day of my Meditations in Literature class at Wilbraham & Monson, I anticipated facet eyes.
This was Massachusetts mindfulness.
This was the Dunkin’ dharma of which the sages spoke.
The scholars in entrance of me have been seventeen-years-old, simply beginning their senior years, and since there’s nobody smarter than a seventeen-year-old that’s simply beginning their senior 12 months, I knew I’d have some detractors.
However by the second week, the apply was now not an obligation.
A lot to my shock, they appeared psyched about it, and one morning a couple of weeks into the semester, a pupil named Christian got here into the room and stated, “Mr. Rosenbeck, I do know meditation is working.”
I requested him how.
“I used to be going by way of the Dunkin’ Donuts Drive-Through this morning, and the woman spilled my whole iced espresso on me,” he stated. “However I didn’t even get mad. I simply took a deep breath, thought, ‘Issues occur, it’s out of my management,’ and I went house to alter. I knew I used to be going to be late, however I didn’t stress.”
This was Massachusetts mindfulness.
This was the Dunkin’ dharma of which the sages spoke.
However endurance on the Drive-By way of wasn’t the one profit, and over the primary two years of the course, college students stated issues like:
“Meditation has helped me cease panic assaults and anxiousness.”
“I can now sleep by way of the night time.”
“My psychological well being has considerably improved, and I finished self-harming 4 months in the past.”
“I grew to become much less judgmental of myself and the world.”
“Meditation made me need to be one of the best individual I could possibly be.”
Based mostly on this success, I met with Brian about bringing extra meditation into the curriculum.
Then, a worldwide pandemic hit.
Inside Jail Partitions
On a primary date on the Drunken Rabbit Brewery, I stated, “Sometime, I’d love to show meditation in a jail.”
That was on a Tuesday.
By Friday, I obtained a name asking if I’d be keen to show meditation in a jail.
This appeared like a lesson in being cautious what you place out within the universe, particularly on first dates.
I’d by no means stepped foot inside a jail earlier than. The closest I’d come was utilizing the gymnasium on the juvenile corridor the place my dad labored rising up. However regardless of a complete lack of expertise with this demographic, I knew meditation might work for them.
It labored for me, in any case.
Then, it labored for the skeptical teenagers in my class, my co-workers throughout the worst days of the pandemic, and the those that confirmed as much as my lessons on the yoga studio the place I used to be instructing.
Given the prospect, meditation appeared like it might work anyplace.
Why would that cease inside barbed wire fences?
The primary morning of sophistication, I sat on the entrance of the room in an armless plastic chair, regarded out at a sea of orange and blue jumpsuits, and thought that I’d by no means taught anybody with a face tattoo earlier than.
In fact, the primary time you stroll right into a jail—if you check-in on the entrance desk, undergo the steel detectors, see the fences overhead, really feel the doorways lock behind you, go armed guards, and listen to the howl of inmates—it’s intimidating.
However it was additionally a second of aid.
As a lot as I beloved instructing at a prep college and a yoga studio, I couldn’t shake the sensation that there was an affect to be made past prep colleges and yoga studios, and the primary morning of sophistication, I sat on the entrance of the room in an armless plastic chair, regarded out at a sea of orange and blue jumpsuits, and thought that I’d by no means taught anybody with a face tattoo earlier than.
I instructed the lads to take a seat tall, loosen their shoulders, let their arms fall simple, and if it felt snug, to shut their eyes.
Nearly everybody did.
And as ever earlier than, the apply didn’t discriminate.
The Meditation Biz
Amongst loads of different physique artwork, Julio had an eyeball tattoo in the course of his brow.
One afternoon once we got here out of shape, somebody throughout the desk stated, “That was nice, however subsequent time, might you ask Julio to shut his third eye?”
Amongst loads of different physique artwork, Julio had an eyeball tattoo in the course of his brow. One afternoon once we got here out of shape, somebody throughout the desk stated, “That was nice, however subsequent time, might you ask Julio to shut his third eye?”
This was throughout my third four-week program at Hampshire County Jail & Home of Corrections. What had began in the summertime now prolonged into the autumn and winter, and I discovered myself organizing my schedule to sneak away from the privilege of prep college to steer meditation behind barbed wire.
In fact, it wasn’t all laughs, and one afternoon that fall, I checked-in whereas an inmate was getting carried out on a stretcher after a battle.
I led the category whereas pepper spray seeped in from the hallway, our eyes watering and throats burning all through the apply.
Some males got here simply to nap, a couple of pushed again simply to push again, and generally, good college students would arrive to class completely totally different than the week earlier than. Somebody would discover out their launch was delayed, or they’d misplaced parental rights, or a buddy from house had died—and you might really feel the way in which that information from the skin weighed down spirits on the within.
This was the exception, although, and on the finish of every program, I obtained responses like:
“Probably the most helpful class within the curriculum.”
“The one con is that it ended.”
“I need to observe the same path in my very own life.”
“No adjustments! If it ain’t broke, don’t repair it.”
“Depend me in for the following spherical.”
It was about this time that I filed an official LLC for The Mellow Elephant, which, within the second, was nonetheless extra thought than plan.
On the finish of the 2022-2023 college 12 months, I made a decision to depart Wilbraham & Monson to pursue meditation full-time, and since then, I’d wish to suppose that the danger has paid off: I’ve co-presented with the Boston Purple Sox Hitting Coach on the World Baseball Coaches Conference, been featured on the entrance web page of the newspaper for my work with legislation enforcement, and created programming for each the State of Massachusetts and Connecticut’s Division of Youngsters and Households.
I’ve led practices on wrestling mats, at espresso outlets, in lecture halls, and at a high-rise in TD Backyard, guiding a meditation with a panorama of Boston stretched in entrance of me.
And amid all this success, most of my revenue final 12 months got here from stocking cabinets at a bundle retailer.
My accountant obtained six W-2’s for 2025: one from a yoga studio, one from a therapy heart, two from adjuncting at totally different schools, and two extra from totally different liquor shops, the place I labored concurrently.
This, it seems, is life within the meditation biz.
The Meditation Highway Journey
Throughout a morning meditation earlier than a Saturday liquor retailer shift, I assumed concerning the Mellow Elephant, and what I would do to develop this dollar-a-day existence into one thing extra.
After I was imagined to be specializing in my breath, my thoughts took off with out me, and by the point the sit was over, I’d achieved no precise apply.
I did have an thought, although.
A one-day meditation barnstorm, filmed for a documentary, to show that the apply actually can work anyplace.
Nonetheless sitting on my cushion, I Googled, “When is World Meditation Day?”
Might 21, 2025.
I had 4 months.
A number of days later, I known as a videographer to see if it was even attainable to drag this off (Sure, it was attainable), and extra importantly, if I might afford it. (Probably not, however we have been going to do it anyway.)
For the following 4 months, I sat on liquor retailer counters and emailed purchasers, contacts, buddies, buddies of buddies, strangers, and generic company inboxes which have most likely by no means been checked. Finally, I obtained sufficient sure’s to substantiate that the World Meditation Day Highway Journey might really occur, I simply wanted to discover a route to steer ten practices in ten totally different places for ten totally different audiences working on ten totally different schedules—and do it in ten hours.
Even within the period of AI, MapQuest stays a really great tool.
Only a few days earlier than take off, the schedule was absolutely solidified, and I used to be capable of transfer to the ultimate step of the method: blindly hoping that folks would present up.
Fortunately, there’s one common reality that applies to all of human incarnation—individuals love free shit—and because of the kindness of NOSOLO, a psychological well being attire firm, I had loads of that, as their co-founder John Toracinta despatched packing containers of hats to provide out alongside the route.
Whereas I marketed the advantages of meditation, the individuality of this journey, and the prospect to be in a documentary, “free hats” appeared to do a lot of the heavy lifting, attendance-wise.
The Meditation Day Highway Journey was a mixture of experiment, celebration, and proof of idea, wrapped up in a love letter to Western Massachusetts.
The tip outcome was MELLOW: A Meditation Highway Journey—a 45-minute documentary shot, directed, and edited by Kayla Ebner and Aiden McDonald—which captures roughly 130 miles and 150 meditators throughout ten totally different places:
- Hampshire County Jail & Home of Corrections
- Easthampton Hearth Division
- Amherst Police Division
- Hampden County Sheriff’s Division
- Springfield Division of Youngsters and Households
- Connecticut Division of Corrections
- Nice View Senior Middle
- Kiley Center Faculty
- Minnechaug Regional Excessive Faculty
- The City Meals Brood at Gasoline Alley
Earlier than it was almost packaged and prepared for public consumption, nonetheless, the day was one thing else completely: a mixture of experiment, celebration, and proof of idea, wrapped up in a love letter to Western Massachusetts; it was the interior panorama of meditation set in opposition to the exterior journey of a roadtrip, and the hope that the 2 may work in unison to the touch one thing I already knew to be true.
Round 2:30 that afternoon, I sat in an armless steel chair on the entrance of Nice View Senior Middle, searching at a sea of graying hair and floral prints.
It got here into sharp focus that no matter house the apply brings us to exists the identical for younger and previous, pupil and instructor, jailed and jailor.
And there was no distinction from jumpsuits and face tattoos.
What I led in a jail, I led in a senior heart.
What I led in a senior heart, I led in a police station, a firehouse, a college, an workplace.
Below the yellow lights of Nice View, it got here into sharp focus that no matter house the apply brings us to exists the identical for younger and previous, pupil and instructor, jailed and jailor.
There was no place or individual with dominion over what this was, what was right here.
Hearts beating.
Lungs respiratory.
Totally current.
Surrendering to what’s.
And for all of the miles travelled, we hadn’t gone anyplace in any respect.
MELLOW: A Meditation Highway Journey was not too long ago named a Advantage of Consciousness Winner for the upcoming 2026 Consciousness Movie Pageant. Watch your entire documentary above.
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